CarolinaBrave
New member
I have 3 adult children now but something I have taught them when they were younger was "happiness is black and white." What did I mean by that? I would tell them you are either happy or you are not. If you are happy don't go somewhere else to be "happier" unless something is missing. If you think you are happy but something is missing then you are content. I think young people(and I thought the same way at their age) think I'm happy at a small or mid major program but I will be happier at a major program(or job or city or significant other, etc). You see it in these thank you letters players write to teammates/coaches/fans. They say everything is great but then say I'm leaving. As I said young people have been like this forever and will most likely continue to be only now with the portal they can much more easily act on this.
Years from now it would interesting to catch back up for many players who left good situations at schools for bigger schools and ask them if they would do it all over again. I think the answers would be very enlightening.
Years from now it would interesting to catch back up for many players who left good situations at schools for bigger schools and ask them if they would do it all over again. I think the answers would be very enlightening.